21 year old son in jail
My son was put in jail last night for the second time for assaulting his grandfather (my dad) for the second time. My parents helped me raise him since I was 16 years old when I had him. I have to admit I didn't do a great job because I was too strict and did spank him alot and my parents did spoil him alot. He has lived with them for the last 6 years and has NO respect for them. He got home drunk last night and pushed my 63 year old dad around, broke things, etc. I lived about 300 miles away and don't know what to do. My parents called the cops and he's in for assault...with 1000 bond. I think he was drunk and maybe high...not sure but it was a possibility. What do I do? I feel that I should bail him out and where will he go now? I can't have him around my other young sons ages 10 and 11 because of his belligerent behavior and disrespect...what do I DO????