How to Transition when Daughter Comes Home from Treatment
My 21 year old daughter will be returning home in a few weeks after completing 90 days of inpatient treatment. I need help understanding how to best make this transition with her (and for my other daughter, 18, still at home). I don't want to be overly invasive and know she wants to be trusted again. However, the trust is broken, and I am a mix of hopefulness and fear. What kinds of expectations should I have in terms of her living here -- checking in, driving, going out, etc.? How can I stop myself from searching her room, and other policing efforts? How often should she be drug-tested and should I allow this to guide my knowledge so that my sleuthing stops? Thank you.